
Hear real testimonies from single and divorced parents sharing what life is actually like — emotionally, mentally, and financially.

Powerful prompts and questions to help you understand your goals, values, and readiness for children.

Clear explanations of different types of birth control so you can make informed, confident choices that align with your future.

Learn that it’s okay to wait, plan, or live childfree — and still live a full, joyful, purpose-driven life.

Jennifer encourages readers to create a stable foundation in their careers, finances, and relationships before bringing children into the world.
The emotional and financial stress of raising children alone.
The career goals and dreams that get delayed or sacrificed.
The dating struggles and loneliness that often come after.
The pressure from friends, family, and society to have kids before you’re ready.
The lack of honest conversations about what parenthood really demands.
Jennifer Smith breaks the silence — giving you clarity, courage, and control over one of life’s biggest decisions.
This book isn’t about judgment — it’s about awareness and freedom.
It’s for every man or woman who’s ever felt pressure to start a family before they were ready.
Because having children is not just about love — it’s about readiness.
And the truth is: love alone won’t pay the bills, heal exhaustion, or replace your peace of mind.
Jennifer Smith gives readers permission to say:

“This book opened my eyes. I thought I was ready for kids — until I realized how unprepared I really was. Thank you, Jennifer!”
“Every young woman needs this book in her hands. It’s not anti-parenthood — it’s pro-awareness.”